
Arrangement of toy soldiers, part of a Dasara doll display
I work in the IT (Information Technology) industry. One thing that is common in the IT industry is the need to avoid “escalations”. An “escalation” occurs is when someone (likely on the side of the client) complains that work or delivery of a solution or progress of a project is not happening as expected (relating to costs or timelines). Prevention of “escalations” is of paramount importance, right up there along with usual indicators of cost, revenue, profitability, growth and client relations.
The last part there, client relations is what escalations are believed to affect first. To avoid escalations and to mitigate their consequences when they do occur, steps are put in place to stay connected with the team and clients. These are formal mechanisms that are put in place and are taken very seriously across the industry. This is true for all industry sectors, but especially so in the service sector (beyond IT and extending to hospitality, banking etc.)
This aspect of “staying connected” is at the root of escalation prevention and also key to identifying new opportunities in business. When I was pursuing an MBA, the professor teaching us Sales Management used to say that the work of a Salesperson is to build a relationship with existing and potential clients/customers, and then stay connected. This “connection reveals opportunity” was what he wanted us to take away from his course.
I am also a student of the Bujinkan system of martial arts. I heard for the first time, around the year 2009, a Japanese phrase, “En no kiri nai”. This was a phrase that Soke Masaaki Hatsumi used while teaching. As I understand it, the phrase means “do not break/sever the connection”. The idea of this concept is that one needs to be connected to the opponent(s) to be aware of what his/her/their intentions are, and this awareness allows the situation to be controlled. This connection and control can be physical, but not necessarily. Also, the control involves self-control, control of the opponent(s) and control of the overall space/environment of the conflict (conflict could easily be a synonym for “escalation”). In a previous post of mine, I had discussed the idea of “being aware of the opponent” in much greater detail (the idea of Shatrubodha). The link to this post is seen in the notes below1.
Daishihan Alex Esteve from Spain, was in Bangalore a few weeks ago and we had a great few classes with him. During the sessions, he was exploring aspects of the Koto Ryu. As part of this exploration, he was sharing how specific points on the arms, fingers and face can be used to control the opponent. Here, the control was to prevent the opponent from initiating attacks by inducing pain and the threat of potential fractures. This method of control came with a warning.
Daishihan Alex emphasized that if the threat of a fracture or any other damage to the body becomes a reality, control is lost. If the threat comes to pass, the opponent is likely to fight for her or his life and the situation deteriorates, in other words, escalation occurs. Another way of seeing this is as the loss of connection. To control an opponent through a pressure point on the finger, the finger should be connected to the body in the natural manner. If the finger breaks, this connection is broken and the opponent can move with a broken finger which can no longer be used to induce further pain! The pain has increased to a point where the opponent’s brain has switched to a desperate fight for survival, which can overcome all forms of existing control.
Ensuring that the opponent does not go berserk due to the potential of injury requires self-control. This means that one should know when not to overdo the pressure on a pressure point. If one expands this point further, we find examples of laws in some countries for bouncers. The laws require that the bouncers never initiate a confrontation and never strike a person. They can protect themselves, and use grappling or wrestling to subdue the opponent. This means that they can control another person, and thus the conflict, but to achieve this, they need to have self-control, to not strike another person.
In a martial context, the word “opportunity” can be replaced with the word “opening”. Staying connected to the opponent reveals openings to control the opponent and staying connected requires self-control, not a blind adherence to pre-set motives. Also, we are reminded regularly that winning or victory in a conflict, especially in a real physical conflict, is survival, not the condition or fate of the opponent. If this is brought back to the industry example I started with, escalation prevention is survival, is victory.
So, the above points show that opportunities come from connection and connection leads to control. Control leads to self-protection/self-preservation (no escalations remember!). This is victory.
Speaking of victory, we are in the midst of the festival of Dasara (Dussehra to some). Today is Ashtami, the 8th day, tomorrow, the 9th day is Āyudha Pooja and day after tomorrow, the 10th and final day of the festival, is Vijayadashami. Vijayadashami is the celebration of victory and the day to begin new endeavours. Āyudha Pooja is the day to show gratitude to the various inanimate tools and implements we use in our lives. In my post from last year, related to this festival, I had discussed the importance of Āyudha Pooja and Vijayadashami in greater detail2. The link to this post is seen in the notes below.

Weapons in preparation for Ayudha Pooja
Āyudha is the word used for “weapon” in many Indian languages. The term Āyudha can also be applied to any tool or implement that we use to live our lives and earn a livelihood (like laptops, machine tools, tools of any trade etc.). Weapons are just tools used by individuals whose responsibility is security of various kinds. These are the implements used to achieve success or victory.
Earlier in this post, I mentioned that victory is survival. And connection leads to control which leads to survival. So, “connections are a key to victory”! That means connections are a weapon, or a very important tool at the very least.
Connection as I have been using the term, is about being aware of oneself and the surroundings. The surroundings include the space and environment around oneself. It also includes the individuals and organizations one interacts or interfaces with, and that means awareness of the motivations and objectives of people and organizations.
Just as escalation prevention means staying aware of what might be going wrong in a project, prevention of escalation of conflicts at the levels of nations includes diplomacy and espionage. Both involve learning about what friends and foes want, are working towards and are up to. While diplomacy might involve mechanisms of communication that are defined, espionage might involve identifying new connections and using the same for various ends, nefarious and otherwise. So, connection is intelligence too!
This is borne out by several examples from history, including the actions (supposedly) of the Israeli agencies in the ongoing conflict in West Asia. A few other examples that come to mind are shared below.
One of the reasons for the South Indian kingdoms losing to the Khilji (Khalji) and Tuglaq armies is supposed to be poor intelligence, or a lack of awareness of the urgency of the threat posed from the North. When Khilji attacked the Seuna Yadavas at Devagiri in 1296, the large part of the Devagiri army was supposedly raiding further south, likely in Hoysala territory. Also, when the army returned, they fell prey to false reports of the size of the Sultanate army. This indicates a lack of Shatrubodha, or awareness of the enemy! It also reveals a lack of awareness of who the threat is and when it could materialize. In other words, there was a complete lack of connection with what was happening in the North, while the same was not true of the South.
In an eerily similar situation, Malik Kafur (Khilji’s General) is supposed to have been able to defeat the Hoysalas at their capital Dwarasamudra in 1311, as the Hoysala army with its king, Veera Ballala III was campaigning further south in Pandya territory. The Hoysala king Veera Narasimha is supposed to have set aside the taxes from one village, for pilgrims to use as travel expenses and more importantly, the toll levied by the Delhi Sultanate (jizya) while visiting Kāshi. This happened some 80 years before the Sultanate armies were on the doorstep of the Hoysala capital. This again indicates a weak connection to the surroundings or a break in one that existed. The YouTube video linked below shows Sandeep Balakrishna of “The Dharma Dispatch” explain the actions of Veera Narasimha quoted earlier. The link is to the YouTube channel, “Prāna Stories”.
This happening in India is inexplicable as the tradition of the importance of espionage had existed for about 1,500 years before the Delhi Sultanate invaded the Deccan kingdoms. Chanakya, in his Arthashastra, is supposed to have emphasized how a ruler should ensure that he is aware of happenings in countries all around his territory and even beyond. As I recall, Chanakya suggests friendly relations with nations with which a kingdom does not share borders and military superiority over the ones with which there is a shared border. He also advocated always having active spies and being ready for covert action (maybe with the legendary Vishakanyas).
This is another way of saying, “stay connected, always”! For, whether one is making friends or staying dominant, both are forms of staying connected, even if the means and ends differ. Also, whether to make friends or achieve superiority, one needs information and awareness, which comes from intelligence and hence connections.
Even in modern times this holds true. Consider Japan in the middle of the 19th century. It had maintained an isolationist policy for about 250 years by then. But the arrival of Commodore Perry and his fleet forced Japan to sign a one-sided treaty and open its borders. Japan had fallen behind many parts of the world technologically due to its self-imposed isolation. The importance of the incident with Commodore Perry is revealed by the number of Japanese manga and anime that use it as a backdrop for their stories.
This experience of Japan shows that a while policy of minding one’s own business and not getting involved is great self-control, it is a complete lack of connection. And that is a sure shot way to encountering negative consequences. All of us, as individuals, societies and nations are part of a system and disconnecting leads to danger, if not outright harm, on all three levels.
Consider how India handled the Bangladesh Liberation War of 1971. India took its time to build up its military and intelligence capabilities before declaring war. This is shown by the actions of the R&AW, India’s external intelligence agency and the tri-services. Also, India indulged in diplomacy with all parts of the world to ensure that external interference would not thwart its military objectives. This is revealed by the USSR holding off the efforts of the USA to help Pakistan, its then ally. This is an instance of building and using connections in all domains to achieve objectives successfully.
The thing with espionage is that it knows no friends or foes, for it is connection, pure and simple. I recall reading in a novel many years ago, I think it was a Frederick Forsyth novel, I cannot say for certain, that Israeli foreign policy sees no friends, only enemies and neutrals, so no one is free from being spied upon by Israel (the Kendra Bindu* of news currently!).
An example of this that does not involve Israel is the case of the R&AW officer Ravindra Singh. He is supposed to have spied on India for the CIA and eventually defected to the USA. This happened in 2004, after the relationship between the USA and India had thawed post the nuclear tests of 1998 and friendly (somewhat) relations had been established. So, at least in international relations, friends should expect to be spied upon by friends and not desist from spying on friends of their own. It is all just about staying connected remember! 😛
Coming back to the festival of Dasara, the one distinguishing feature of this festival in parts of Karnataka and Tamil Nadu is the display of dolls. The displays could have themes or just be a revitalization of memories. People can use new dolls made in traditional styles to tell stories of Rama or Krishna or any other or just display dolls that are inherited from parents and other older relatives. The themes could also be lifestyles in a city, a park, animal life and the like.
However one indulges in the arrangement of the display of dolls – the entire event, from preparing the platform, cleaning stored dolls, arranging them as planned and later the storing of the same for use next year and cleaning up after the festival is done – it is all about connecting with one’s recent history, culture and family traditions. It is a connection across time – to remember a time from a century or a few decades ago and adding it to current lifestyles.

Arrangement of “Bombe” (dolls) at my in-laws place 🙂
The other feature of the Dasara many people in South India associate with, is the Jambu Savaari in Mysuru (Mysore). This is the carnival like parade led by elephants, which recreates the way Dasara was celebrated in the late 19th and early 20th centuries. This is also a connection across time. The Jambu Savaari is a connection at a community level, even if one only watches the procession on TV or on a live stream. The display of dolls is a connection at a personal level, with family and friends.
The festival of Vijayadashami on the last day of Dasara is when the Jambu Savaari happens every year. This festival is also considered auspicious for any new activity to begin. So, people are encouraged to start something new on this day. Now, consider what I hypothesized earlier. Connections are a tool and Āyudha Pooja is the celebration of tools.
If we put the two festivals together, we celebrate connections on Āyudha Pooja and endeavour to begin establishing new connections on Vijayadashami. For starting a new connection or fixing one that is not great, is a new activity. If connections can provide protection (victory), that is only apt, for Vijayadashami is also the celebration of victory. Thus, a dual purpose is served.
The last point about Dasara brought us to connections across time. This is perhaps vitally important in an Indian context. Indian or Bharatiya civilization has survived an assault by both Islamic and European cultures. Connecting to this past through history should reveal many important points to ponder. One of the important ones is about what happens when the civilization breaks connections with sections of its own people and environment.
American political scientist Harold Dwight Lasswell had produced a paper in 1936 titled “Politics: Who gets What, When, How”. I recently saw an article in the “Frontline”3 which used this title to begin, by saying “Politics is about who gets what”. The article is not relevant to the points I am about to make, but the line is relevant.
Everyone knows that India is extremely diverse in terms of language, food, culture, traditions and even geography and climate. Now, consider the description of “politics” from the previous paragraph. If any of the diverse sections of the Indian population is deprived of any resource, a feeling of a breaking of a connection with the Indian state is created. Something else needs to be done to fix this break and re-forge the connection. This is a perpetual task, considering limited state resources in India. One of the resources is “a feeling of staying in control of one’s destiny” or simply put “a feeling of having power”. So, power sharing is the name of the game, apart from all other resources. So, Indian politics, perhaps all politics, is “to stay connected with everyone”.
“Staying connected to everyone” can be expanded further based on a concept from the Hindu way of thinking. The are 5 “Rnas” or debts everyone is supposed to carry, according to Hindu thought. These connect to not just everyone, but to everything! This should be obvious as seen below.
The 5 debts are –
- Deva Rna – The debt owed to the Gods for maintaining the natural order of the universe
- Pitr Rna – The debt owed to the ancestors for their activities that allow us to live the lives we do
- Rishi Rna – The debt owed to the Sages of the past, for the knowledge, technology and systems they created, that enable our lives
- Manushya Rna – The debt owed to fellow humans that exist, for we are all connected in invisible ways
- Bhuta Rna – The debt owed to the natural world (plants, animals, land, climate etc.) for without the ecosystem, our lives are impossible
So, as seen above, these are debts everyone is expected to endeavour to pay. This is a perfect summarization of saying that connections are vitally important to survive and should never be forgotten. Watch the following video from the YouTube channel “Samvada English”, between the 25 and 45 minute marks. Here Dr. Aarti V B, explains the five debts in a beautiful manner, apart from several other concepts of Hindu Dharma.
Leading on from the last few paragraphs, I will end with a point about connections across time! I had discussed how narratives and news are modern day weapons which are “time-based”, just as missiles and bombs are space based, as in, “long range missiles” and “bombs that can flatten a city (geographical spread)4.
The depth of connections can be vast and perhaps only be identified with a hindsight of many centuries. Consider the following video from the YouTube channel of the ‘The Print”. In the video, historian Anirudh Kanisetti explains how the Pandya kingdom drove up the prices of horses all over the world by importing vast numbers of the same from Central Asia. This turned out to be a catalyst for the invasion of Pandya territory by the Delhi Sultanate. To reach the Pandyas, the Sultanate armies had to defeat the Yadavas of Devagiri, the kingdom of Warangal and the Hoysalas. When the Pandyas were defeated, a lot of these horses were part of the loot taken by the Sultanate army.
This video shows that knowledge is another form of identifying connections, even if they are of events that happened centuries ago! The events that transpired during the campaigns of the Delhi Sultanate form narratives that affect Indian politics in current times. So, the past is not really dead and a tool by itself. The use of History as a weapon/tool means one needs to identify its connection to various aspects of contemporary life.
Issac Asimov, one of the greats of Science Fiction writing, wrote a short story called “The Dead Past” in 1956. In the story, a scientist develops a means to see the past, which can be used by everyone. This happens after his request to use the Government controlled technology to do the same, is refused. This has major repercussions he never envisioned. This story is also an exploration of how the past is not dead and connections to it still shape our lives.
And that hopefully explains how connections are the key to everything and how the festival of Dasara and the martial arts lead to the same learning/reminder.
Wish you all a wonderful Āyudha Pooja, Vijayadashami and Dasara in general!
Stay connected, stay strong, it is the primary weapon for survival.
Notes:
1 https://mundanebudo.com/2023/07/06/connect-control-part-1-connect-control-shatrubodha-in-flow/
*Kendra Bindu – Central point or point of focus
4https://mundanebudo.com/2023/10/15/missile-long-range-weapon-narrative-long-time-weapon/






























